- We all get jokes that begin like:
* Two gals were playing chess....wait the joke has not completed yet...
* Ek baar ek aadmi ki wife mar gayi. ( once a man lost his wife)
Since I love to laugh, I used to enjoy these jokes till one day my daughter gave me a piece of her mind. Don't know why, but I never found these jokes derogatory for women. I used to think it's ok to laugh at one's own sex. After all it is only a joke. But suddenly I realised why we never get jokes on idiosyncrasies of men?
After FB and stand up comedians, now Wot's App is the latest carrier of these. I don't blame them, but call them innocent because they have not yet realised the curse they are transferring to the next generation. After all I was in the same boat once.
Now whenever I get such forwarded jokes by innocent women/relatives/younger cousins, I copy paste this message :
Your joke was funny but such jokes are called 'sexist' ie against the dignity of women.I have decided not to appreciate and forward such messages. How wrong it is that if we just replace the word 'wife' with 'husband', nobody would laugh.
Our films are the bigger culprits. Few months back I was forced to watch, 'Two States'
in a theatre. A dear friend persuaded and I couldn't say no. She wanted to watch it because she had to set the question paper based on the book for her BA students. Apart from other things I found Amrita Singh's character so obnoxious that I preferred the gatekeeper's company outside, than sitting inside the hall. I was amazed that nobody thought the way I did. I have seen IIT + IIM gals and they do not behave like the young actress was behaving.
Thank you dear for the opening my eyes and ordering Simone de Beauvoir's 'the Second sex' from Flipcart for me.